February 16, 2006

  • Landmark- Conor eats!

    No need for food!

    Last night, February 15  around 8 PM, Conor Ross Flanagan consumed solid food (beyond breastmilk and medicine) for the very first time! I'd like to think his first real 'meal' was this morning, because it was REALLY watered down last night, but there it is! He had breast milk mixed with cereal- last night it was more like thickened milk, this morning it was more like "oatmeal" and thick. Katrina got to feed him his first food.

    He is just over three months old, but we began- with doctors counsel- to feed him his first bit of cereal because during the day he just was not eating enough because of the bottle and gas pains I think. He just rejected it too much. He would eat, but not enough. So we decided that on the feedings he does not eat enough, I will mix him up a small portion of the creal to eat. We have to be careful, because while breast milk cannot make a baby overweight- a common cause for weight issues in babies is too much cereal product.

    So, put this in the history of baby calendar.

    February 15th- Conor's First Solid Food

    PS- Yes, I know he has red eye... sadly I don't have my anti-red eye software here, so I cannot fix it. If anyone wants to send us a good program for image editting I'd appreciate it... I had some really good ones, but they have been lost or damaged with time. :( Just call him "Terminator Conor"!

  • No Need for News

    Mac Notebooks even faster?

    Macintosh Cultists, rejoice! Apple is shipping the new MacBook Pros with supermegaultrareallyfast chips at no extra cost.

    Starting this week, the MacBook Pro will ship to Apple retail stores
    and customers who ordered the notebook online, said David Moody, vice
    president of Mac hardware product marketing. Apple Chief Executive
    Steve Jobs first unveiled the MacBook Pro at the Macworld Expo in
    January, but the notebooks have undergone a slight change since then.

    Two models were originally announced--one for $1,999 with Intel's
    1.67GHz Core Duo processor and one for $2,499 with Intel's 1.83GHz
    processor. Apple will now include a 1.83GHz processor with the $1,999
    system, and the $2,499 system will come with Intel's 2GHz Core Duo
    processor, Moody said. Customers will also be able to select a 2.16GHz
    processor for the $2,499 system for an additional $300, according to
    Apple's Web site.

    When asked how Apple was able to accomplish this incredible feat, Moody
    simply said, "[W]e were just able to make it faster." He then added,
    "these aren't the droids you're looking for, go about your business...
    move along, move along."
    (by Wil Wheaton)

    Another News bit- Sex Workers Unite

    Yes, you heard me right. Apparently, "Sex Workers" unions- prostitutes in other words- are banding together to promote voting with our dollars to boycot Grand Theft Auto. They are informing parents of the danger extreme video game violence has to children and wish to further sex worker's human rights by objecting to media that shows sex workers (not just prostitutes, but drug lords and pimps) as a legitimate target for violence.

    An illegal group that should not even legally exist in most places (if not all) in the USA is pointing at a video game, saying that it may not be illegal but it is wrong? On moral grounds?

    Tell me, am I crazy to find this... well, crazy?

    Especially since I find myself a little baffled in saying I agree with them on that subject, but still... yikes...

    Video games focusing on making killing anyone okay- or even showing it- is harmful to everyone. But personally, I'm suprised there is a sex workers union at all, much less that they can announce this and not be busted by a SWAT team right away. "Hey, we promote prostitution..." BAM "You're under arrest". I suppose that all you Law and Order fans out there could explain why that isn't possible, but that is not necessary. Just find it humorous with me... in a sad, sad way.

    Put the Blocks in Order

    Come and have your vote! Take the following, currently illegal or strongly unsupported (mostly illegal to my knowledge) segments of society and put them in the order YOU think they will become legal if ever. This should be interesting- so everyone pitch in!

    -marajuana
    -illegal drugs (above marajuana)
    -prostitution
    -incest (ie- "If it is two consenting adults, we have a right to choose..." and with abortion, well, no worries about genetic abnormalities...)
    -sex with minors (or, perhaps, lowering of the minor age limit- ie "17 or under" or "16 or under")
    -puplic exposure (public nudity, could include nudists and "nudist rights" kind of like gay rights... "we have a right to wear what we want, just like you do")
    -public sexual acts
    -euphenasia (helping people die, in other words)
    -nudity on public television
    -letting politicians be chased by angry bulls in an arena
    -genetic experimentation with human DNA (could include cloning of humans)

    Come now, don't be shy! Put them in order and let's see how corrupted you think or society is, or will become in the near future and in what order!

    On a serious note, I think that we can see some of these coming a mile off- but I think we'd also be suprised if we could go, say, fifty years in the future (maybe less) at just which ones actually DO become socially acceptable.

    -Patrick

    PS: Sorry if this post is offensive to anyone. The goal is to help people think a little, and entertain a bit.

February 12, 2006

  • Toilet Cleaning- Cheaper home substitute to store!

    Toilet Cleaning
    Instructions
    :

    1. Put both lids of the toilet up and add 1/8 cup of pet shampoo to
    the water in the bowl.

    2. Pick up the cat and soothe him while you
    carry him towards the bathroom.


    3. In one smooth movement, put the cat in the toilet and close both
    lids.
    You may need to stand
    on the lid.


    4. The cat will self agitate and make ample suds.
    Never mind the
    noises that come from the toilet, the cat is
    actually
    enjoying this.


    5. Flush the toilet three or four times.
    This provides
    a "power-wash" and rinse".


    6. Have someone open the front door of your home. Be sure that there
    are no people between the bathroom
    and the front
    door.


    7. Stand behind the toilet as far as you can,
    and quickly lift
    both lids.


    8. The cat will rocket out of the toilet,
    streak through
    the bathroom, and run outside where he will dry himself off.


    9. Both the commode and the cat will be sparkling clean.




    Sincerely,
    The Dog


February 10, 2006

  • Evolution of a Story

    I am sometimes amazed at the gift of creativity God has blessed me with- one I think my Sister shares as well. When I used to create plots for my volunteer job with Ultima Online, I would strive for creativity that I might think of new ideas and storylines- then, at certain times, it would start to flow and the story would unfold.

    I was watching an episode of "Ghost Whisperer" tonight, and it reminded me of a few stories I used to like when I was younger. A plot began to form in my mind, and the basis for the start of a story was begun. The story, as sometimes happens, began to build and unfold almost like a movie- except in fast motion, as if perhaps you were remembering a movie in your mind and flowing through the storyline. Just as you might bounce through it at a faster speed, so too did certain points skim by and others go more slowly. Rather than focus on the middle part of the story, once the basis was formed certain parts began to focus and play out in my mind- mainly the beginning and then the end. I began to realise that this really could become a short (or even long) story. It would be a young reader's story, of course, but I feel as though it could be a good one. I may no longer be a youth, but I remember what excited my imagination at that time and I think it would do the same for others.

    What fascinates me is how I can let go of the story and it seems to develop itself- entertaining me as well. I see the plot develop somewhat on its own, but in a way that satisfies me. Have you ever read a story that was really good, but certain parts just don't seem to work out the way you would prefer? Well, that is where making my own story is great- I don't always know what will happen, but I do know that it will end up fitting my preferences. My standard of a pleasant story will be met, since it is my story after all.

    Lately I have been inspired more than ever before with new ideas and creativity- and an urge to put it to paper. I think that I shall perhaps do so.

    -Patrick

February 8, 2006

  • Babywise- Progress on Day 3

    I am delighted to say that this week, my second week as primary caregiver working in the home, has been a breath of fresh air. Yesterday morning was tough during feeding, because Conor completely rejected the bottle and would not even try it. So, nada for 9 AM feeding. The 12 noon almost did not work at all, but after fighting for it a little while he managed to eat a decent amount- and his 3 PM went just fine! This morning, suprise suprise, went great! He fed like an angel- it seemed to me that starting while he was asleep (not waking him first) and the fact he seemed well rested helped a great deal.

    No Need for Sleep (Suimin Muyo)

    If you haven't read my previous entry explaining Muyo, look back- because this will be a common theme in my entries from now on. Muyo, needless to say, means "no need (for)".

    Tuesday, after having begun the schedule on Monday with Babywise, I began putting Conor down for sleep before he was completely out. There are positive and negative sleep props. The negative ones are addictive and result in years needed to get rid of. Positive ones can be things like a favourite toy or blanket. The negative ones are 1) putting to sleep while feeding, 2) Rocking to sleep (any kind of 'soothing' method through external stimulus- ie vibration (put on washer, put on vibrating chair, etc), rocking, patting, etc), 3) The most harmful- parent sleeping with child. That isn't to say I won't sleep with Conor in our bed somedays, but we need to make that an exception not the norm.

    So, for the last afternoon nap, I actually put Conor down for a totally prop-less (I used props partially in the earlier) sleep. Like the book suggested, within a little over fifteen minutes he had gone down into a full rest!! It will be a little harder because we waited, but I think he is adapting quickly. This morning was his second prop-less nap, as I write... after the 9 AM feeding... and it took him longer to get down, mainly because the phone rang right after he went silennt. That woke him up. :( But he is quiet and peaceful now- I regret that he won't get as long a nap as I'd hoped.

    Because he is so used to props, his initial adjustment might take some time, BUT he is doing a LOT better than I expected! Also, I feel we are still starting early enough to help avoid dependency long-term. Of course, I realise this method goes against the more popular norms- but having researched both varieties of methods, rather than waiting until six months to begin sleep 'training' we are starting now. I'll keep you updated on the progress!

    -Patrick

February 6, 2006

  • Conor's Schedule this Week

    Our Schedule- This Week

     

    I thought I would share our current
    starting schedule- since baby is already going to be three months as of around
    February eleventh, we are kind of fusing the “starting newborn schedule” with a
    schedule somewhere in-between to start with. By now, if we’d started early,
    baby should be sleeping around 9 hours a night straight through (in their study
    with 500+ infants, by twelve weeks over 90% of the Babywise method children
    were sleeping through the night). Right now, we’re aiming for the earlier goal
    of five hours through the night until he gets adjusted. So, here is our day!

     

    6 AM

    -Wake up

    -Feeding and diaper change

    -Bath time with Mommy

    -Playtime

    7AM Daddy takes over

    -Naptime

     

    9 AM

    -Feeding

    -Diaper change

    -Walk out to put up mail with Baby

    -Playtime (usually around 15-30 minutes
    depending on how long baby plays without crying)

    -Naptime

     

    12 PM Noon

    -Feeding

    -Diaper Change

    -Play in bathtub with Daddy (fun, not a
    real “washing” this time. Baby loves it, and we want baby to love water!)

    -Crib time/play time

    -Nap

     

    3 PM

    -Feeding

    -Diaper change

    -Walk/stroller outside and check mail

    -Playtime

    -Nap

     

    5 PM Mommy gets home!

     

    6 PM

    -Feeding

    -Diaper change

    -Playtime

    -Nap

     

    9 PM

    -Feeding

    -Diaper change

    -Playtime

    -Naptime

     

    12 PM

    -Feeding

    -NO playtime, straight to sleep

    -Goodnight baby!

     

     

     

     

    That’s our day! It’s very flexible,
    according to the Holy Spirit’s guidance and just plain parental discretion, but
    the goal is to gradually get him used to this. Eventually, bed time will be
    earlier and sleep time longer! Until next!

     

    -Patrick

  • Today's Special- Baby schedule

    Babydumb or Babywise?


    I would like to personally point out the book I am currently reading that
    should be attached to this entry. Allow me to say to all present parents of
    babies, and future baby parents alike, that I would like to highly recommend
    this book as a guide to begin raising a child in a secure, stable way. This
    book was recommended to me by several people, and after reading some reviews on
    Amazon and hearing some contradictory advice from the medical community such as
    our paediatrician (the child-centred approach is preferred by most of the
    common medical community up until six months or above) I backed off getting it.
    Amazon reviews had a mixture- some said it was great, others totally bashed it,
    their main defence being that the writer was not an MD and had no medical
    experience or backing.

     

    I have received Babywise- the revised
    edition- and I am quite excited about it now. First, as to the main criticism-
    no medical backing- the revised edition fixed that. It is now co-authored by a
    paediatrician who was formerly an OBGYN. The back of the book has endorsements
    by four paediatricians, and they conducted a medically sound study on over five
    hundred children to gather statistics on the validity of the techniques. So,
    this style is just as medically sound and approved as other techniques out
    there. I highly encourage all future baby parents to at least buy this first
    book (there are others for your child as they grow older) and review it.

     

    Mawwage and Food

     

    The centre to the book is very encouraging.
    The first chapter is on how a strong, sound marriage that continues hopefully
    as it did before the baby is key to a secure, happy baby. Becoming baby-focused
    only hurts the baby more and instills a “me-ism” that makes the adult self
    centred and not too happy to be around. The goal should be “we-ism” and letting
    the baby/child see the parents together, having discussions and growing time.
    It isn’t just what the child sees (ie- avoid arguments, anger, etc infront of
    baby) but what they do NOT see (ie- lack of love, lack of together time, etc).
    I think this alone is why some people hate the book.

     

    Right now, Katrina has made a beautiful
    schedule for our wall. This is my first day starting it, and I am delighted- I
    feel more confident, and baby is even doing pretty well. Baby had something of
    a schedule already, but with the book as a guide- while we should have started
    a loose feeding schedule in the first two weeks (again, this is against
    “medical and La Leche League common advice”… they would say schedules should be
    avoided until much, much later than we are now. This is not the ONLY medically
    proven way- it is only one STYLE, though they will not tell you this). A lot of
    worry is over having a strict schedule and forcing your baby into it. The book
    explains the several styles very well. Here’s the example.

     

    Definitions:

    Clock means when you feed based on the
    time.

    Cue means when you feed based on the baby’s
    “cues” that they are hungry.

    PA means Parental Assesment, Babywise’s
    style of assessing the situation, using your judgement as a parent to decide
    “How long until the next feeding, or how long since the last feeding? Is this a
    unique situation? Are we on vacation and have to break the schedule a bit? Are
    we in a plane and the baby is disrupting the other passengers, but the
    scheduled time is far away? Are we leaving the baby with a babysitter?” All
    these things are part of PA- it means YOU are the parent, so you have the
    discretion to decide.

     

    Child-centred demand feeding:

    Cue + Nothing = Feeding

     

    Schedule feeding:

    Clock + Nothing = Feeding

     

    Babywise parent-focused feeding:

    Clock + Cue + PA = Feeding

     

     

    See the idea? So, if it is 8:30 and I am
    supposed to feed at 9:00, but baby is awake- I try to soothe him and see if he
    will nap until 9 AM. But if he starts crying and really demands food, then… I
    feed him, because it is really nearby. If, however, it is 7 AM- I fed him at 6
    AM- and the next feeding is 9 AM, then either there is another reason for his
    upset feelings, or I didn’t give him a full feeding. I use my PA to decide if I
    want to feed him immediately and try for a full feeding, adjusting future
    feedings to get back on track- or focus on calming him until the next.

     

    A healthy feeding schedule eases the child
    into a normal biological cycle. They begin to adjust and have a normal feeding
    cycle, and their sleep begins to adjust as well. Also, when breastfeeding, the
    mothers begin to produce milk at the right times- particularly when they don’t
    breastfeed all through the night while baby sleeps.

    I'll post our schedule next!

     

    -Patrick

February 5, 2006

  • No Need for Sanity

     Tenchi Muyo- “No need for Tenchi”

     

    Recently the anime I have been watching has
    been a lot of “Tenchi Muyo”, and most recently I began “Tenchi Universe” which
    is basically the same general story as Muyo, except it is a TV series and there
    are some significant changes. Two writers/creators apparently got together for
    the OAV (ie- comes out only on video/DVD, not TV) Tenchi Muyo. Within a few
    episodes, one of them left/lost influence and he later went on to make Tenchi
    Universe (the TV series) while the other one had primary influence over the OAV
    plot. Thus two “universe’s” were born. The funny thing is- a primary
    translation of Tenchi is “universe” (another one is “earth and sky”, but it
    depends on context). So there are literally two Tenchi’s!

     

    I like the explanation below for an example
    of the name and translation issues-

    1. Why is
    the title "Tenchimuyo! Ryo-oh-ki"?

    Answer:
    AIC's president Toru Miura chose it.

    More details
    ...

    In the early
    plan, there was a simple and tentative title "Ryo-oh-ki", by Masaki
    Kajishima. But when it was animated, the sponsor (Pioneer?) wanted a title with
    much stronger impact.  Toru Miura and Masaki Kajishima saw "Thomas
    the Tank Engine" (Old British Model Animation about a family of steam
    engines. ^_^) on TV and decided to include the hero's name in the title. 
    Toru Miura expected the series to be a comedy with characters jumping around,
    upside down, and came up with an idea of "Tenchi Muyo! Ryooki"
    (tenchi means "sky and ground" muyou is "no need"). But a
    problem is the correct meaning of "tenchi muyou" is also "don't
    make this upside down" and nobody there knew this (^_^). (This is one of
    common mistakes many young people make.)

    So, apparently Tenchi Muyo could mean “No
    need for sky and ground” in a literal sense, or could mean “No need for the
    universe”, or it could mean- and traditionally would mean- “Don’t make this
    upside down”. In the TV series they play on this, and each episode is titled
    something different- “No need for worries”, “No need for Tenchi”, “No need for
    princess”, “No need for carnivals”, etc.

     

    Politic Muyo- No need for Politics

     

    I recently receive a poll regarding
    politics. I am not much of a political person. I believe it has its place, but
    I do not really enjoy the subject nor do I ever desire to focus on it much.
    However, it is a necessary evil and it has its place in life. There are times
    when it simply cannot be ignored. So while up until now I am officially
    non-partisan, I have decided to join a party and research each candidate (both
    republican and democratic) and go from there. In truth, I am non-partisan.
    However, I am choosing to join the Democratic party. Perhaps this proves my
    belief that a conservative, Bible believing Christian who is pro-life and
    believes homosexuality is wrong does not necessarily have to be Republican too.
    Politics and beliefs ARE interactive- you cannot separate them- but I do not
    believe that one party or the other is “Christian”. I’ve done some research and
    reached some conclusions on that.

     

    No Need for Business

     

    I anyone who has done much reading or
    observing of fiction has noted that two different outlooks have been taking on
    the future- especially in Science Fiction. You have the future where government
    becomes a total control. Then there are the futures, such as in Anne McAffrey’s
    science fiction work, where- more creatively- corporations take control and in
    many cases becomes almost their own government. Space becomes controlled by one
    to several mega-corporations that act as their own law in some ways. They even
    have their own security force- which could be termed as an army if large
    enough.

     

    Do not dismiss science fiction- it is a
    means of exploring thoughts, philosophies, ideals, and most importantly
    present-day issues. I believe that our politics hang on keeping a balance. We
    must walk the tightrope between two extremes, and two evils- total corporate
    control, and total government control. There must be freedom in the business
    world- but the government has to balance that out to avoid monopolies and
    mega-corporations from becoming too dominant and powerful. I believe that
    particularly right now, the democratic party has needed values that would help
    to restrict business and reassert government involvement.

     

    Remember, the government has the influence
    of all of us. Corporations do not- they are influenced by a small few that we
    have no real control over, and are interested only in self gain and control.
    This is not true all the time, but when certain gigantic corporations grow they
    become a large entity that must be kept in balance. Once there is one or two
    corporations which sell almost everything- property, loans, computers, food,
    furniture, jobs… everything… what is to say they are not becoming a government
    in a way themselves? “You don’t have to get a job with us if you don’t like our
    rules…” is great, until all the rules are the same and the choice is
    unemployment- not a choice at all- or being forced to follow THEIR rules, not
    our countries. What happens if some serious weakness befalls the government at
    some point and it ends up that the corporations have more stability and power
    than the government? Ah, this is all theoretical, but it is possible with
    enough time and changes.

     

    Right now, the goal is to keep a balance. I
    believe many Republican politicians have very poor policy in regards to
    business and trade- as well as some social issues. Also, states should also be
    subservient to the government on some important issues. This makes it hard to
    even consider voting for some of them for an office like president.

     

    No Need for Government

     

    Likewise, there are dangers if free
    enterprise and personal freedoms diminish and government control becomes more
    absolute- while state freedom shrinks to almost nothing. I believe that while
    American workers need a strong support and help from the government, trade must
    be kept strong and corporations need some room for growth at times- within
    limits. Unions aren’t necessarily a bad thing either, and I’m sad they are
    diminishing in many places.

     

    If government really is “separated from
    Church”- then there is a problem. I believe government should be infused with
    the morals of the people that make it up- so I vote and make choices based on
    my beliefs, and vote for people who will do that as well. A non-religious
    government… completely separated from “Church”… becomes religious, by being
    atheistic. Such a government is one I would never want to have too much
    control/power, either. It is my hope that the government would have a soul and
    heart that would balance out life with conscientious laws and choices.
    Corporations, of course, have no such ‘heart’- so they need balance.

     

     

    Parties Muyo

     

    So I have a good view of the strengths and
    weaknesses I see in both parties- in general. I see that the strength of the
    republican party- and in a way it is a tool they sometimes use to get the vote-
    is their moral grounding. On key issues that I cannot, and I believe no
    conservative Bible-believing Christian could ever waver in- they stand firm
    usually. I believe I cannot ever move on the issues of abortion being
    absolutely wrong- murder that no government could support any more than it
    could the death of any normal person or citizen that has done no wrong and is
    not a part of a war. I also believe that laws should not afford homosexuals
    some of the same privileges afforded men and women in regards to the matter of
    marriage and children. It is their choice to be involved with each other
    sexually- but our society does not need to support it, even though we should
    not actively seek to hurt/demean them. That is what I believe, and I won’t go
    into the explanations here- that’s not my purpose right now.

     

    Republicans generally hold to these matters
    strongly, and Democrats- while I have seen some that religiously believe what I
    believe, those that do believe it say “government cannot dictate this, so we
    should allow all the choice”. Republicans of course say that government has a
    right to limit the extra privileges it allows on these very moral issues.

     

    Meanwhile, Republicans also make some poor
    decisions in regards to public eduction- while I like the idea of vouchers, if
    Republicans say that it should be the church who helps people in need shouldn’t
    it be the church that helps supply aid for private education? Either way, I
    think public education needs reform- serious reform- if our society is to go
    further. Also, taxes going down will not solve our governments financial
    problems as much as we might like it. The taxes go down, and corporations
    simply CHARGE more! What is needed is a better economy, and more control over the
    companies seeking unfair and inappropriate profits in difficult times- gas
    companies are a great example right now. Too much favour to private business-
    usually the ‘mega companies’ is a poor choice. Too many tax breaks reduce the
    money needed to fix our national debt and supply funds to support faltering
    support. As a person who has a family that barely makes enough to make it WITH
    help from our parents- I see government programs as a necessary help when the
    private companies, out to get as much work out of my wife as they can with as
    little fair payment as possible- fail us. Our Church is a good church, but even
    they cannot help us with finances at this time. The government needs to be the
    balance- to see that the companies pay their part in helping our society grow
    and stay strong, and that the lower end of the spectrum is supported fairly.

     

    At the same time, I think that war
    shouldn’t be shrunk away from. Terrorists should be actively pursued, and our
    full resources should be invested in ending the active threat- without
    alienating the UN or other countries completely, of course, but still standing
    for our interests. If we shrink down from direct threats against us, we expose
    ourselves to a future downfall and attacks from growing powers in the world.

     

    If I could combine all the strengths into
    one party, I would definitely vote for it. But I cannot, so I must try to dance
    the balancing act in my voting. It seems to me that might mean that, at the
    right times, I should try to vote a democratic president into office in order
    to help balance out the corporations and give proper attention to government
    support of society. At the same time, I need to make sure that our laws that
    protect life and morality are kept strongly in place.

     

    More Blabbering Muyo

     

    -Patrick

February 2, 2006

  • Extreme Makeover- two styles

    God’s Image

     

    Why Extreme Makeovers don’t cut it

    I was told a few days ago by Kat
    that Extreme Makeover- the show where women (and men, perhaps, I never watched
    it except to see what it was about) write in and are selected to have major
    plastic surgery to change how they look. ‘Ugly’ people who are unhappy with how
    they are, get to change into a ‘beautiful’ person. I was thinking about it this
    morning, while our baby is sleeping and I was washing dishes. There is a reason
    it was cancelled- why people were unhappy with it, and why it caused so much
    damage.

    Firstly, out of
    curiosity, in the past I looked at the site and the application form. In it,
    you talk constantly about “Why you deserve a makeover”, you go into detail
    about what you don’t like about yourself- what you want changed, how, which
    way, why it has negatively effected you. You basically are encouraged to think
    about all your negatives. If my wife- as I know women, and people in general
    who have places in their body they are uncomfortable with- had looked even just
    at that form, she would have been depressed and down afterwards. Just filling
    something like that out is harmful, much less filling it out- then finding out
    you aren’t selected and living with a refreshed sense of inferiority. You have
    to prove why you are “just so bad, you HAVE to have a makeover” and if you
    loose- you are left feeling that even though you have to have one, you can’t.

    In regards to
    money problems, a renown psychologist said to a person deep in debt and
    struggling to make it- that he believes that with people dealing with money
    problems, money isn’t the problem. Even if he settled all their debts and threw
    money at them, it wouldn’t fix it. I personally think if you gave someone-
    anyone- with serious money issues and debt a million dollars, there is a high
    chance that would not prevent future money problems. What about five hundred
    million? Maybe for a while, but eventually they’d face issues again- from
    having so much money, alone, much less spending it poorly. Money and the lack
    of it brings out problems in people- brings out spiritual weaknesses and hurts,
    or immaturities. The same is true with our self image and appearance. People
    who had extreme makeover have ended up having more problems than before- or
    becoming worse people for it. The solution is not changing our appearance- the
    way God made us. Yes, sin is in the world so we have appearance and physical
    issues that God, in His perfect will, wouldn’t have made. But that doesn’t mean
    God is sitting up there helpless- He gave each of us what we have, and there is
    a reason it can be used to make us stronger and not weaker.

     

    God’s Makeover

    We must be wary that the blemishes
    we feel are on our body do not transfer to our soul- and become a cancer. We
    all have a cancer called sin inside us anyway- and only through the ‘heart
    surgery’ the Spirit of God performs upon us can we begin the process of
    becoming healed in spirit. Even once we have begun this process, though, we
    must be wary of this problem. My niece Amber was born with some physical
    issues- a cleft palette- and if she does not fight against the flesh, the
    bitterness and hurt from how she has been wronged by her peers because of
    something that was not her fault, it will eat her up and become a cancer in her
    spirit. She is a Christian, by her words, but she still has much anger. Yet God
    only cares about what is inside the heart, the rest is temporary.

    I had a bicycle
    accident when I was around twelve. The bike flipped forwards on a gravel road-
    with rocks, really, not gravel- and I fell into it. I got a rock in my elbow,
    but worst of all I hit my two front teeth on rock and they were pressed back
    close to the roof of my mouth. The dentist was able to put them straight
    enough, but one tooth was seriously chipped and died and the other just made it
    with a chip. From that point on they looked strange in colour and were kind of
    off in shape. In the last few years I had crowns put on them- the dentist was
    upset, thinking braces would work better long term and hating to have to kill
    the one living tooth- but I had it done, because I was just putting to right
    what an accident messed up. But I could still be self conscious of my teeth,
    and my appearance. I realise, though, that all I wanted was a straighter bite-
    all the money and time for braces, while nice and such, could be put elsewhere.
    I don’t need to look perfect- I’ve found my lifemate, and she is happy with me.
    Also, my time with those teeth taught me more about humility and accepting
    myself. Even now I have imperfections- I’m scrawny, and there’s all these other
    little things. But I don’t care. If I let God cleanse my spirit, then that will
    shine through beyond those little things and I will find happiness in spiritual
    perfection- the seeking of it, at least- that never could be found in physical.
    After all- do not the carvings of God themselves say that Lucifer was the most
    beautiful being ever created before his fall?

     

    -Patrick

February 1, 2006

  • Start Page

    A Good Way to Start Surfing

    A few weeks ago, I was going from one site to another and realised that I had a few sites I was constantly typing in! So much so I had them memorised and could just type it in very quickly- but still, the time it took to do that and swap from one site to another (when, say, I would only check hotmail for seconds and then move on) was annoying. I thought to myself, "Why is it that windows has a Start menu and desktop, so I can easily see and click on all my programs, but nothing like that for my websites?"

    So I began thinking and looking.

    I found that others had taken to the same idea. I got some good ideas for a 'start page' from some online examples. However, most were either online homepages that others could see their interests on, or the one start page I found was more of a summary of a lot of regularly used links in more of an unnapealing text format. I was thinking smaller amount- just a few often used places- and better style, with nice looking 'buttons' or graphics to click on.

    Implementation

    So I pulled out Microsoft Word- which, while not Frontpage (I can't find my copy) it happens to have a great web editor- and played with it. I found that with a simple cell style 'spreadsheet' sort of grid I could place the graphics in columns, and then I just went to the site of each place I wanted and saved a copy of their logo when I found it. There was only one site- a smaller less graphical one, Gamefaqs, that didn't have one. Then, I sized them to a smaller more usable size and turned them all into hyperlinks to the appropriate site and put them in categories. Here is the result (click on the picture to get the bigger size):

    I wanted to share it, because I thought this was a great thing! Not only because it looks nice- it isn't superfancey so it was REALLY easy- but because it is SO useful! It's on my hard disk, not online, in its own little folder. I made a shortcut link to the file on my desktop so it is very easy to just start up the computer and click on it (I should probably make it my homepage too, and just put Google on there). All my regularly used sites- xanga, hotmail, amazon, the Sims 2 (yes, I use that a lot- or have), vonage, etc are all on it. So... I just click and go. It's a good idea, and if any of you need thoughts on trying it yourself, just let me know. For a variety of links, use your favourites. For your few, often used ones, make a Start Page!

    -Patrick